You will prepare and submit a term paper on The Impact Facebook Rituals Can have on a Romantic Relationship. Your paper should be a minimum of 1250 words in length. People, especially the youth, have taken to social networks not only to communicate with their friends but to make new ones. Many love relationships have also been formed and flourished online on these social networks. indeed, there are those who join Facebook with the sole intention of dating and finding love. While many of these relationships become successful, there are many more which end up in heartbreak and sometimes even tragically because even criminals and stalkers use the internet to lure their victims. Therefore, it is imperative that we consider several questions, such as if Facebook poses a threat to the security of already existing relationships. What motivates people to look for love on Facebook? Can Facebook be considered a realistic and practical way of starting and building relationships? This essay will focus on the last question. it shall discuss, argue, and contest the appropriateness of Facebook as a facilitator for relationships by examining the issues that surround Facebook relationships.
There are several issues that make Facebook a shaky setting for developing and growing relationships, one of these is the effect Facebook has on pre-existing relationships. Consider that two people are in a relationship and both happen to be friends on Facebook. One of them may join a group or make friends with a member of the opposite sex who might send suggestive messages or gifts to them. Bearing in mind that the line between innocent flirting and cheating might mean different things to different partners, a post on someone’s timeline may cause friction and result in the termination of a relationship (Ilana 878). In another situation, when couples that are friends on Facebook have a falling out or disagreement, one of them may update something about it on their page, and this can cause their partner to feel humiliated.
Moreover, youths often use media and technology to promote sexual behavior through highly sexually suggestive messages and sometimes picture in what has been dubbed sexting (Pascoe 6). Facebook easily offers an avenue for this: when people are online, they are able to hide their shyness and will be bolder.